Okay I am going nuts and searching the internet is not helping.
Short: Had to reinstall Server, Installed Sql Server 2017 - C drive with a default Mysqlserver instance.
Have secondary hard drive(before reinstalling) and we originally installed the instances to this other drive. I also believe during the installs where you point root directory also went to the secondary drive(D if you will).
So on D drive I have my folder D:\Microsoft Sql Server\MSSQL14.MySqlDBName
in that I have MYSSQL\
Backup, Binn, Data, install, jobs etc.. and also the .dll's sql_engine_core_inst_keyfile, sql_extensibility_keyfile, sql_fulltest_keyfile, sql_inst_mpy_keyfile
I installed SMSS, and really all i want to do is get my instance back up and going with the databases inside of it.
I just dont know how as everything is recovering, i dont want to move it just connect...