Import .csv to SQL 2012 and SQL 2008

I have a trying to import a .csv that has four columns, like below:

Column 1 is ID

Column 2 is states it current 

Column 3 is email address

Column 4 is updated date

I have tried to import it buy continues to error.

I need a script that will look for column 1 and update the email address and updated date.

If it does not have a column 1 in the table to created it with all four.  

I am new to sql so any help is appreciated.